Who Are Your True Friends?

It's so silly when you hear about people talking and gossipin' about you in this blogging world and you take it seriously. (People talk about me?? But why? I have a boring life. I'm a housewife. I'm not the glamour type either. Neither do I feel that I'm snobish/sombong. Betul, I'm not snobish/sombong. Need to get to know me better!! I'm honest too!! But blurrrrrrrrr most of the time ;) At the same time a little bit laser. To me, a true friend is someone who tells the truth even though it hurts sometimes. So if you can't take it, I'm sorry. Macam takde kerja lain lah! Hahaha)

You'll be surprised how people talk behind your back saying things as if they know you well just by reading your blogs.There are of course other readers also who knows you personally and don't give a shit about who you really are, what you write or think because they already know you well. (So it seems-lah).

Sad as it seems but this is happening in the blogging world. Anyway, who gives a damn. So why should I blog about it?

Well, people talk and gossip about it. At the end, it reaches to your ears. So you see, you can't trust anyone 100% unless they know you very well. As it is I've been blogging for 2 years and been hiding behind the handle of MobileMom because situation and personal reasons which I shall not enclosed. Some of my friends/readers know and they have been kind and trusted enough to keep it a secret. (So it seems). But you know, people talk. People naturally tend to be curious and wanting to know who you are in person for some obvious reason. Yeah I admit I used to be that way too. But I have learned to ignore and not bother with it because I have more important things to think about. Don't like being a busybody! Hahaha

Anyway, I hardly hang out with other bloggers because I mind my own business. However you do get people who seem to mind your business.  But I have met few matured, fun and interesting bloggers personally. They are a fun bunch of people who are like me. - Mind my own business kinda people. You get people out there who talks and gossips telling others who you are, who you are married to, who's her husband/bf, what sort of a person you are, what you have, what you wear, how much jewelry she wears bla bla... etc etc. I still wonder..why? Why bother? Of course along the way I met old friends/irc clans that I've lost touch for years. Plus I do keep intouch with the interesting, fun and matured bloggers. Sometimes I think at the end of the day, it goes down to the age factor.

Well to me as long as they are happy to gossip and talk, go ahead because I don't give a damn. The stories I hear is amazing. I don't even know some of them. Blogging world is nothing compare to the real world that we all live in. I'm sad things like this happen. But I have accept the fact long time ago where you can't control what people say and talk because that's a natural behavior for human being.

Hmm.. up to you la people. It's sad that some friendship that we have and created after so many years end up down the drain because they are not purely sincere. The trust is lost and the sincerity no longer exist. Some would even buy friendships because they just want to fit in. Some tries too hard to fit in by doing silly things which to them is cool-lah. Oh well, life is such.

The truth is that you can't change people's perception and thoughts. Of course it does hurt a bit when it gets to you. I've learned to let it go and move on because these people are not worth being your true friends. (Lantak kau lah!) A true friend will be there for you, cry with you, pray for you, be happy for you and not envious or jealous of what you have and who you are. I'm a nobody like everyone else who just mind her own business. I had enough of people back stabbing me as it is I know who they are and what they have said. Again, I don't give a damn. May these people have a good life.

There, I've said my peace. Just be grateful with what we have and I'm VERY grateful and blessed that ALLAH showed me the guidance. Alhamdulillah.

Comments

[mirul]

rule of safety when you are blogging:

1) never take things seriously, as it is NOT the real world, it's only an imaginary world

2) always say what's on your mind without minding other people's thought about it (phew i admit this is a quite susah one to do :p)

3) always have back-up support (eg: ur hubby) in case everything goes wrong ;)

other than that, ure just fine! have a nice trip mummy ...